How do you know this person?
Well just listened a poem in some official program. Then heard about honesty and blah blah blah from someone. So added in FB list just out of that impression i guess, though i add unknown people rarely to my list. For someone like me, in a corrupt world, honesty catch attention easily i think! Just after some time started feeling like something was wrong somewhere especially after reading some posts.
Kabhi kabhi impression aapko depression main pahuncha deta hai! Suna hai! And seems true!!
Depression Huhhh! May be sometime impression try to impose suppression which some people cannot tolerate.
When did you realize about this snooping?
After 2-3 months, i shared my concerns with some of my friends and we started checking his posts frequently to know the truth. Many times, it happened that whatever i wrote on FB only for my restricted friend circle but indirectly found commentary in his posts with manipulated mirch-masala. With time, we also realized that same is true even about calls. Meanwhile, some of his rude and indecent indirect posts made me to delete him from my list.
You meant to say it was not just snooping but even some kinda actions and reactions on that?
Yes! Not once but many times. The more i read that zone, the more i felt offended as it was kinda you talked something with your friends, family, relatives or even colleagues and you found something related there in his posts in this or that form. At one point i felt so bad and lost all my patience that i wrote even a post titled CID ("Criminal in Disguise " (here).
It's only your experience or even someone else in your surrounding experienced the same.
Well, i know about a few who talked about the same but ignored due to fears.
What type of fear?
Who the hell gonna take the risk to offend someone in that position was the instant response! On that how can we prove that? Some people even advised me to ignore, stop using this or that social sites.
So you did not try that?
Well, Indian gals apply all this ignorance kinda attitude here, there and just anywhere. They learn this too instinctively from surrounding i guess by birth. So i did but as always with a big question mark.. Why??? Why me?? That person must stop! On that many of my friends were not so happy with that cowardice kinda act of deleting my own profile due to someone else. So after sometime i made another profile.
Was there any change after that?
No! One after other this person kept on dragging this or that issue out of here, there or just from nowhere! Sometime acting as a charmer but most of the time bossy-dictator, sometimes kinda guide, mentor and protector but sometimes kinda predator, sometimes kinda psycho, so many types and variations are there!! But one thing is constant, that is continuous snooping and all type of commentary in this or that form. I even asked once directly from him some question related to this surveillance technology and its misuse but the reply was kinda main point of the question was ignored! May be someone else can get some reply. The new thing is many in his circle who are now part of commentary, be it positive or negative, know well what they are doing and what is going on there! That can only be the culture of vultures, i guess!!
It seems a clear case of stalking, cyber bulling, defaming and misuse of power. Can you give some example/s or exactly those posts, your calls or if there is something else to share?
Yes! Not one instance but my diary is full with day by day happenings. May be in some other post i will write those "coincidences" with the questionmark/s for that person to answer!
Thanks for all your support guys!!